Life is like a wave crashing onto the shore of the ocean. There are times it may come in slow and there are times it may move at light speeds. In just one blink the wave has moved on to do the same all over again. I often think of the many times I have sat on the shore watching the roaring ocean do it’s thing and how much life can relate. That is what life is. Life is a constant. Each and every day of it needs to be treated as a true gift. A blessing. Life is always changing. We are always changing.

I have been thinking a lot about change. I spoke to my Aunt yesterday. She has always been a constant in my life. No matter how long we go with out seeing each other or even speaking we always leave from where we left off. She and I were always very close. When we speak something always comes up where I am reminded of the person I am. She knows what I need to hear. She knows exactly what to say. I am not big into social media. I have never had a connection with it. I was always inconsistently on and off as I was trying to build businesses over the course of the last ten years. I finally gave up on stating who I am in my bio because I still don’t even know who I am sometimes. Social media never worked for me. Call me “old school”. I’d rather have a gathering, Sunday dinner get togethers or talk on the phone for an hour than see peoples lives unfold on social media. I have become even more distant to social media now that I am not focused on building a business. Naturally, I am also distanced from the world. I think this is sad. I’ll add this to another experience of my own in which I can perhaps shift within the world around me. This is where life has changed a bit too much for my soul to handle.

Change is another constant in life. We are always changing, evolving and learning from our experiences from the day before. Those days before become weeks, months and eventually years. It’s our experiences that help of grow and mold into who we eventually become. Who do we eventually become? That’s a question that may seem bleak. No one truly knows. Yes, we become a product of all of our choices that we make on a daily basis, however, that may change too. Our choices change. Our choices are the product of our mindset. Our mind is set based on what we are thinking, which is always changing. It also changes in the blink of an eye. Our eyes see and our mind is made up.  It is the same kind of constant ripple effect as when the wave crashes into the ocean shore. Our eyes are closed and we have a certain mindset. It may be calm and collected. We are in a space of meditation, and you may not even realize. Once our eyes are open we see “clearer”. Our egos come into play and then we must make better choices.Again, think of that ocean. It’s not just our mindset we need to keep under control, it’s everything within us. It’s only within us that we must control. Everything outside of us is a sheer illusion of what life is made up of. For many it is a constant struggle to figure out who we are. Don’t waste your time trying too hard. We are constantly changing. Enjoy each day, week and year. You will not be the same person you are right now. Think of the ocean and then blink.

I’m in a state of pondering again, as this comes into play for me often. The reason being is because there’s something that remains constant in my life and that is the will to constantly change. I adapt well to change. That is something I could not have said freely in the past. I love change. That is also something that I could not have said so freely in the past. The thing that has changed the most is my mindset. Everything else is a ripple effect of a wave crashing into the ocean shore as I sit there and watch it happen in the blink of an eye…

Until next time…

Love & Light, Always!

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